Pretence is
a killer
Pretence is
a killer and I fail dismally when it comes to pretending , I
would rather keep my distant from a spirit than act around them , I find it
unnecessary and time consuming , actually just a waist of my time to be honest . The change stages , finding
new friends , letting go of the old , starting new relations ,
family drama or being excepted in a new family ,starting a home with someone
or on your own , being promoted at work… ect…, all these things are stressful
and have different effects ,they can either be good or just damn suffocating ,
it all depends on who you are and what you want in that particular stage.
I have had
the pleasure of knowing one good spirit in the past two years and what I have
learned from this old man ( .i.e directly and indirectly ) its priceless really
and when the time came of having to say goodbye , I found myself all emotional
and sad but appreciative of what I have learned from him , time spent and all
the crazy funny, knowledgeable moments we have shared . Pretence is a killer and change hurts
a little bit sometimes, nobody ever says that as damnit if you cannot handle
change it means your rigid and that’s
bullshit!! ….., we different and I know I have made some bad choices , choices
which don’t go hand in hand with my believes all in the name of living in the
moment , then finding myself in shit afterwards and having to take responsibility
and keep it moving , my point is change is hard and it will not kill you to own
that at some point in your life as appose to pretending that all is good and
well .
The thing
about pretence is that if you do it too often you ll be able to lie religiously
and when your that far gone you will not know the difference anymore, at some
stage we’ve all been lied to, I mean I ‘ve had folks lie to my face with a
straight face ….( and I learned to not
believe what anybody says to me at face value because chances are they might be
lying …. Jah that’s just me though… ) .
I say if you
are able to dish out the truth with no sugar coding, also be able to receive
the same when the tables are turned. Pretence is a killer and folks care way
too much about being excepted and liked instead of being who they really are
and voice out what they prefer in life
and expect from their friends , loved
ones and co- workers .
I have
learned enough harsh lessons to know that it really doesn’t cost a damn thing
to own who you are and to always speak your truth without any pretence , then you will know the real folks who are supposed to be in your life .
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